Who controls you?

Do you control yourself? I use to ask this question to me in various situation…. in most of the case its ‘NO‘. So now i am asking to all of you, are you in commanding position?

There are different situations which controls a human being.The way you speak, eat, move, its all based on how your neighbor behaves. Why all people in this world don’t have the same accent, or don’t have same behavior. What is the reason? its because they are not controlling their life. Their neighbor’s thought controls him.

This is corporate world.All are busy with their work. Their mind is racing, they need to take a fast decision. Even a hasty decision makes them huge loss. So you must be in control or how can you take a crucial decision?

Lets take one example:

1. A man walks into his office, there the receptionist says “what is this?? in this dress you are looking like an old fella.” Thats all his total plan and his behavior will change for that whole day.
2. Similar way a student is going to attend an interview in a top-notch company.He cleared all previous technical interview.Its going to be personal interview.So he is neatly dressed. He is wearing a Light blue shirt and Cream color pant. He is looking Great on that day. when he entered that interview room, the HR just looked his Shoes and raised his eyebrow as an expression of his distaste. That all he didn’t do well in his exams and he was rejected.

This is what is happening in most of our cases in day to day life. It seems that this problem is so small. But it is not. It will cause minor STRESS, which will eventually builds up and at the end of the day, you are exhausted.

Most people will complain that management is stuffing them with projects and they were not able to complete within that specified time.This leads to stress and because of that they are getting ill. The worst case is that many get Blood Pressure,heart attack.This usually happens in software industry. They will have to submit the report within the time, or its going to be a huge loss for company.

They can do all those hefty works and can accomplish those mighty project. But all you need to do is a CLEAR MIND. If your way of life is controlled by your neighbor, then you won’t be able to complete any simple work, because you are living in a world where all your neighbor are stressed. Their thought will control your thoughts. So it is natural that you will be stressed.

So all these starts with your neighbor.

Can you expect your neighbor to always talk in a positive manner, or can he understand your mood and can he motivate you? Is it possible. They speak what ever comes in their brain.They don’t filter messages. Brain is not trained to filter messages. What ever comes as thought brain spills it out. You are also a victim.So how to avoid all these?? To avoid all these you need to have control over your mind. Your mind is a powerful tool. You can transform your mind to your own flexibility. So to control your mind, what you need??? All you need is a simple thought- a positive attitude.

“It all starts with a thought”

Steps:

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   1. Have positive attitude.
   2. Daily meditate at least 15 min.
   3. Write down what you are going to be in a piece of paper and read daily.
   4. do some simple exercise.
      
   5. Wake up earl in th morning.
   6. When ever a neighbor comments on you, Just don’t take this to your mind.
   7. Learn to remain calm.
   8. Have positive attitude friends.
   9. Don’t take any hasty decision.
   10. Believe in the way you live. Make others to follow your life style. Be a leader.
       

If you practice these principle, you will be able to filter your thought. What is Filtering your thought?? You won’t speak which will hurt others. You will try to motivate them. Everyone starts to believe that you are a Leader. They will follow you.

“Great people are ordinary people, who knows to control their thoughts”
“Great leaders are not born, they are made”
“Great things can be accomplished only with clear mind”